There are so many sayings about it.
“Time flies when you’re having fun.”
“It has been said, time heals all wounds” -Rose Fitzgerald Kennedy
Time passing is one of lifes’ few guarantees.
Life never stops. There is no pause button. No rewind or fast forward. There is just time. Every sixty seconds in a new minute every sixty minutes in a new hour, and every twenty-four hours is a new day. That is never going to change.
In a world full of uncertainty it is rather nice to know that no matter what changes the sun with rise in the morning and set in the evening. But sometimes it can be a real pain. We often wish the world to pause for a week while we mourn the loss of loved ones. We crave to go back to our childhood, or the days when life was a simpler place. We yearn to skip the days of the early morning classes and the late night study sessions, wishing to jump to the good part when we are really living our life.
It’s a nice set of dreams, but it isn’t reality.
I recently turn eighteen, in sixteen days I will be graduating high school and in three months I will be starting college. I now make monthly car and phone payments and will begin working a full time job this summer. It seems as if my childhood has merely disappeared before my eyes, leaving me nothing but distant memories. And while I celebrate my newfound freedom I mourn the loss of when life was easy.
It’s a balance.
Time truly is a balancing act. Managing it, enjoying it, and trying with all our might not to take advantage of it.
As I have gotten older I have noticed that my view on time has changed. I used to view life as a great adventure. Everyday a new page full of things to discover and as I grow and work my way into early adulthood I view each day as a ticking time bomb, and the only way to stop it is to get a list of stuff done.
Make that appointment.
Finish that project.
Fold that pile of laundry that has made a home on my bedroom floor.
I am happy but I am not enjoying the here and now. I do my school work and I eagerly await college because I know that what comes after I will love with all my heart. I am enjoying the outcome that is merely years away.
And that, that is no way to live your life.
I recently stumbled upon a quote that has since changed my perspective.
Don’t spend more than five minutes being upset about something that isn’t going to matter in five years.
Not more than three hours after this verse was brought to my attention a friend asked me to join her in a hike to a hammocking spot.
Automatically I thought that it would be a waste of my time while I value spending time with my friends I would rather do something productive together, like shopping or preparing for things to do, but I agreed as I knew it was of importance to her to get out and enjoy to sun.
Since that day two weeks ago I have since gone hammocking with her twice and alone once.
There is something about the wind and the fresh air. The sound of birds chirping and the water flowing that completion of any task, no matter how big or small can beat.